Greetings, kinky readers! My first few months with LDW have been so much fun, and after nine wonderful years in the BDSM Lifestyle, I do believe this FemDom Mistress has found a new home in the Enchantrix Empire! What a warm welcome it was from both fellow Mistresses, and eager submissives awaiting their chance to worship. It certainly whet My appetite, to say the least.

Although I was well-versed in the art of Domination prior to joining LDW, enjoying it on calls created a whole new dimension to explore within. The wonderful submissives who have taken this journey with Me have risen to the occasion of amusing Me, serving Me, and suffering for Me- and experiencing the unique energy and synergy on each of My calls has been an absolute delight. My hedonistic lifestyle experiences and the always naughty, often sadistic debauchery I’ve relished have blended so beautifully into the fetishes and fantasies I’ve explored on the phone. They’ve also graced Me with plenty of vivid stories to tell and knowledge to share. Now that I have a blog to give you a glimpse into My world, it’s time we get to know each other better.

A Classic BDSM Mistress with a Twist

I can still remember My first play party in a BDSM dungeon. My excitement mingled with nervous anticipation, barely contained inside My skintight, shiny black dress. Naturally, My confidence and curiosity swiftly evolved those nerves into pure exhilaration. There were many sights to see, from submissive men led by collar and leash, to stunning women in Shibari bondage. The musical tempos of paddles and floggers, soft moans and sweet whimpers filled the atmosphere with transcendental energy. I was exactly where I belonged. I wanted to learn everything about the spectacle I came to witness: the implements, the dynamics, the energy, and the drive behind it all. It wasn’t enough to witness this- I had to experience it for Myself. So I did.

Studying under the guidance of Mistresses and Masters with years of experience in the BDSM and Leather Communities, I honed My skills as a Dominant one indulgent scene at a time. My roots are that of a classic BDSM Mistress. My presence is infallibly commanding, elegantly austere, and formidably clever- juxtaposed with scintillating sensuality and devilish playfulness if I decide it’s warranted. As I evolved as a Dominant, My lifestyle evolved right alongside Me. After years of exploration, I discovered that I am both pansexual, and polyamorous to boot.

I simultaneously realized that I prefer beautiful women as My lovers, and men strictly as My submissive toys. This ended up working out fabulously for Me, having met My gorgeous wife five years ago, and My hunky live-in submissive two years later. My Queendom is now a polyamorous household with both of My partners submissive to Me, and permitted to switch with each other for My viewing pleasure. What more could a Mistress ask for? Perhaps an entire Empire full of Mistress friends and submissives to tease!

A Few of My Favorite Kinks

The mind of a BDSM Mistress is kinky, creative, and calculating- but it is never ordinary. I’ve always strayed from traditional gender roles, and this reflects within My distinctive sexual prowess and the fetishes I enjoy. My proclivities could fill an encyclopedia, but for now I’ll divulge a few favorites to keep you on your toes.

Cock Control has always been at the top of My list- a prerequisite to serving Me properly. The beauty of this is that Cock Control comes (or doesn’t) in so many varieties to play with! I adore sensual guided masturbation that leaves you quivering in ecstasy almost as much as intense tease and denial that leaves the fate of your orgasm in My hands- as it should be. Of course, this means I also love locking My submissives in chastity. Habitual strokers who can’t handle being locked up will simply have to edge more for Me to make up for it.

Alternatively, they can bend over and assume the position instead. I’m not a Mistress who takes cock. I’m the Strap-On FemDom who wears the cock and gives it to you like none other! I own both realistic and fantasy cocks from anal starters to a Size Queen’s dream, and My collection would make porn studios jealous. As such, both strap-on fantasies and anal training are within My realm of expertise. Now, don’t worry if taking My strap-on isn’t your thing. I’ll be just as happy cuckolding you by fucking your wife while you watch!

You should also know that I have a penchant for lingerie, both couture and vintage. I’m a CFNM Mistress who loves to tease while wearing beautiful things. Silky stockings and garter belts are so sensual, and My leather corsets and skimpy latex bodysuits were made to be worshipped. If you’re that way inclined, I also delight in dressing up My sissy girls and cross dressers in fabulous femme!

A Mistress with Sadistic Inclinations

Masochism certainly isn’t every submissive’s flavor, but I have an extraordinary skill set for the pain sluts who can appreciate it. My training as a Mistress included extensive education for safe BDSM play. Paired with My expertise in Distance Domination, I developed a particular talent. I can either guide My submissives to masochistic subspace through instructed play, or weave a tactile dungeon fantasy. I thoroughly enjoy both options, just as you’ll enjoy a taste of My sadistic inclinations.

For starters, nipples are very fun to torment! I could never deprive a submissive with sensitive nipples of the attention they deserve. Pleasurably teasing them is such an erotic warm-up, but then it’s time to get creative. Pinching, flicking, and twisting them are simple delights. Different types of nipple clamps each have their own bite, and clamps with chains leave endless possibilities for predicament bondage. Hearing the sweet whimpers said predicament produces is something I will never tire of. If anything, it only makes Me want to find out what else makes you squirm!

Spanking is another favorite of Mine, both in fantasy roleplay and as instructed play. My wrist has a swift flick for hand spankings, and hairbrushes are the perfect alternative should My spanking hand tire. Once you’re over My knee, your bottom may be subjected to any number of implements. Maybe the wooden paddle, or the leather one. Very naughty submissives may receive the rubber paddle. Caning, of course, is reserved for egregious offenses. Now who deserves a punishment?

Cock and Ball Torment also happens to be a source of endless entertainment for Me! CBT is a delicacy amongst the torments I have to offer, whether I’m binding your jewels in paracord, giving them a few well-placed smacks, or a good squeeze. Bring some clothespins and a wooden spoon- if you dare.

What it means to be a BDSM Mistress

To be a BDSM Mistress is both a profound indulgence, and a considerable responsibility. Both Dominants and submissives are, first and foremost, people. Though many fetishes are quite common, we each have a need to explore these fetishes as an individualized experience, and in a way that offers an escape from the outside world. We all need a place to be exactly who we are. To be a Mistress means guiding My submissives through their most vulnerable moments. It means stripping off the armor that hides their secrets, their fears, and the desires that continue to beckon the primal core until they are satiated.

The incredible connections between Myself and My submissives thrive on communication, respect, obedience, and the ambition to evolve together. Dominance isn’t simply about power and control. It’s about shared energy, intimacy, and finding the perfect balance between gifting a submissive their freedom in chains, and forging each link from My own desires. It’s a tightrope I continue to walk with precision and unwavering grace.

Are you ready to submit to Me?

Until next time, behave…

-The Intelligent Phone Mistress